In Audre Lorde’s The Cancer Journals, she describes her personal
experiences as a woman diagnosed and living with breast cancer. She underwent a
right-side mastectomy, an experience that contributed majorly, along with the
cancer diagnosis and treatments, toward distressing her life. Following her mastectomy
procedure, a female representative from the American Cancer Society’s Reach for
Recovery Program came to visit Lorde, bringing with her a puff of lambswool for
Lorde to place in her shirt where her right breast formerly was, in an attempt
to give off the appearance that she never had a mastectomy. Reflecting on this
interaction, Lorde was appalled by the American Cancer Society’s approach to
helping women who recently lost a breast to cancer.
As Lorde makes clear in her journals,
the immediate reaction of the Reach for Recovery program representatives to
promote prosthesis causes breast cancer to appear to be a cosmetic problem with
an easy solution by way of prosthesis. This method of attempting to help women
cope with the loss of a breast further amplifies the stigmatization that women
are completely focused on their appearance. The idea of prosthesis seems great;
it seems like a way in which women who underwent a mastectomy could go back to
normalcy, to their lives before cancer raged in. However, this is not really
the case. Lorde points out that she is not the same as she was before, and no
amount of lambswool or other form of prosthesis could allow her to return to
the way she was before.
With societal pressures and media
pervading our lives, it is extremely difficult not to succumb to the standards
women are expected to follow to look “attractive,” or even “beautiful.” Because
of this, finding information on women who have undergone mastectomies and
decided not to have reconstructive surgery or use prosthesis afterward is not
an easy feat. Information provided by BreastCancer.org, available at http://www.breastcancer.org/treatment/surgery/reconstruction/no-reconstruction?utm_medium=OBWidget&utm_source=OB,
tells women what to expect when choosing to “go flat.” The connotations that
the website provides on choosing to accept the way women’s bodies exist after a
mastectomy are enough on their own to prevent women from choosing to accept
their changed appearance. The Breast Care Site, available at http://www.thebreastcaresite.com/post-surgery-options/,
claims that use of prosthesis rather than breast reconstructive surgery is the
most freeing breast-less option, not caring to mention the option of using
neither prosthesis or reconstruction. Having to undergo an invasive surgery
that alters one’s physical appearance is a distressing experience that many
women suffering from breast cancer must face, sacrificing one or both of their
breasts in order to save their lives. In a society where women are supposed to
look a certain way to be accepted, it seems natural that women recovering from
a mastectomy would desire to appear “normal” again, having two breasts like she
should. However, breast cancer is not a cosmetic problem. It is a medical
problem that will not simply go away with reconstructive surgery. Prosthesis
may be a way to hide a woman’s mastectomy from the public eye, but it will not
change the way the breast cancer victim feels inside, through both the physical
and emotional pain.
Recounting the experience from
entering her doctor’s office for a post-surgery appointment without a
prosthetic in her shirt, Lorde describes a disturbing conversation with a nurse
who saw prosthesis as a crucial step in recovery from a mastectomy. She said
that wearing a prosthetic would make Lorde feel so much better, and that she
strongly encourages patients to wear prosthesis when coming into the office so
the morale of the office is not negatively affected. In all honesty, is
expected that media influences and other members of society will push for women
to look a certain way to be deemed acceptable or attractive. The medical
community, on the other hand, is a completely unacceptable group from which
judgment on appearance comes. Medical professionals, especially those working
in oncology, must realize that there is a deeper importance to recovering from
breast cancer than superficial, cosmetic appearance.
Breast cancer, whether it involves
a mastectomy or not, is a highly emotional experience, as any other type of
cancer would be. Breast cancer diagnosis means staring a potential death
sentence in the face and finding the strength to fight it. It is a serious
medical condition that affects the victim both physically and emotionally, and
neither of those aspects may be ignored. Viewing prosthesis as a way of healing
a woman after a mastectomy is degrading, dehumanizing, and demoralizing. Having
the courage to fight cancer shows that women are much more than their
appearance, if evidence is needed to satisfy those who don’t realize it
already. It is important that women realize prosthesis and breast
reconstruction are not their only options post-mastectomy. They need to be
welcomed into the community as breast cancer survivors, strong-willed women who
deserve to be looked up to, not looked down upon for having undergone a
mastectomy.
References:
David J Photography. "The SCAR Project: Breast Cancer is Not a Pink Ribbon." The SCAR
Project. 2011. Web. 02 May 2016.
"Going Flat: Choosing No Reconstruction." BreastCancer.Org. 08 Oct. 2015. Web. 02 May
2016.
Lorde, Audre. The Cancer Journals. San Francisco: Aunt Lute Books, 1997. Print.
"Post-Surgery Options." The Breast Care Site. 2013. Web. 02 May 2016.
References:
David J Photography. "The SCAR Project: Breast Cancer is Not a Pink Ribbon." The SCAR
Project. 2011. Web. 02 May 2016.
"Going Flat: Choosing No Reconstruction." BreastCancer.Org. 08 Oct. 2015. Web. 02 May
2016.
Lorde, Audre. The Cancer Journals. San Francisco: Aunt Lute Books, 1997. Print.
"Post-Surgery Options." The Breast Care Site. 2013. Web. 02 May 2016.

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